Most of us would agree that all marriages face occasional conflict. How we handle conflict is crucial in building a strong, healthy marriage. Since men and women are different on so many levels, it's important to work through issues as they arise. Let's consider a few common challenges that couples may face from time to time.
Communication: It's important to talk and listen to one another calmly and not when you want to explode. Try to understand what your spouse is saying. Always go to God first in prayer, and ask Him what to say, when and how to say it. Timing is important! Learn to talk through conflicts in a godly manner.
Finances: Set priorities for your finances and communicate about them frequently. Live within your means and work together to avoid foolish decisions regarding spending. Pray together about how you spend money.
Time: Don't get too busy for each other. Make time together a part of your schedule. Time alone is so important and gives you the chance to really talk with no interruptions.
Sex: For the married couple, sex should be private, precious and pleasurable. Communication is key to a healthy sex life.
Forgiveness: Ask God to help you if you are holding unforgiveness in your heart against your spouse. Forgiveness will set you FREE! Do it often and do it quickly.
We can't change other people, but we can always change ourselves as we walk in obedience to God. Proverbs 14:1 says: "The wise woman builds her house, but the foolish pulls it down with her hands".
Consider these topics as you spend time with God this week:
What is God prompting you to do to strengthen your marriage?
How can you communicate to your spouse in a more timely, Godly manner?
Read 1 Peter 3 and consider your role in your marriage as a Christian woman.
Remember, marriage is a gift from God and we want to honor it in such a way! Let's strive to be WISE women who BUILD strong homes and marriages!
